Stress - you can handle
it!
I think you'll agree that life without stress sounds
wonderful, but as a mom, we have to be realistic! It isn't
necessarily that there is one major event causing us stress,
but more an accumulation of little things, from siblings
constantly bickering, to the tv being on too loud.
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One of the most important things to realize is
that your family depends on you for so much, so the first thing
you have to do is take good care of yourself. Typically this
doesn't come at the top of a mom's to-do list, but it is vital
to the running of your family. With mom under the weather, or
sick, it is so much harder for a family to function. So how do
you do this? Reduce your stress, for a start, and do this
by
- eating healthily. This will not only help you feel and
look better, but will also set a good example for the rest
of your family. Junk food is not ideal! Try to limit the
number of candies you consume, and those cookies. Instead,
try a glass of milk, or some cheese and crackers, or a
yogurt.
- Then stay, or get fit. Again this sets a good example,
but it will also make you feel better about yourself, and
give you more energy.
- Make sure you get regular check ups with your doctor,
and if any problems arise, take the time to get them seen
to as soon as possible.
- Try to get enough sleep every night, although this may
be even more challenging if you are menopausal. Those night
sweats can be extremely disruptive. And remember, don't
stay up too late or you and your family will
suffer!
- laughing as this is so good for you. If we only look,
we can find the humor in a lot of situations, and it would
be a lot healthier for us. Failing that we can always read
some humor. I suggest taking a look here and consider purchasing this
book. There are some 460 pages of humor, which is sure
to have you laughing in no time at all - just what the
doctor ordered!
Now, you are probably wondering how you will find the time
to even attempt this for one day. You can do it, and it will
help to reduce your stress level.
For nutrition, I find one of the best ways is
to just avoid buying junk food altogether. You can't eat it if
it isn't there, and to go to the store takes effort, probably
more than you want to spend! When you go shopping, avoid the
junk food aisle, keep to the fresh foods, and remember not to
go shopping when you are hungry, as that leads to more impulse
buying!
For exercise, try to walk the children to
school rather than drive, or if you are at one of their
sporting events, go for a walk while they are warming up, but
be back in time to watch the game. Or if your children love the
play ground, walk there, or around it, while keeping an eye on
them.
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Thanks go to Jean Johnson for providing the
following tips for us:
Top Ten Ways Working Moms Can Take Care of
Themselves by: Jean Johnson
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If you have children who are
night owls, encourage them to have quiet times
in their room so that you can get some much
needed sleep on a regular basis. They could use
the time to read, or listen to quiet music, as
long as they respect your need for sleep. ~
Site Editor
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2. Eat well.
Yes you know it. Most of you don’t
do it. It is just as easy to grab a piece of fruit
as a basket of fries. You and your kids will feel
better if you eat three good meals a day. Do the
shopping, planning and cooking together. This gives
you bonding time and teaches the kids good skills
to help out around the house.
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3. Exercise.
I know you’re exhausted at night
and don’t have time in the morning, but if you’re
stopping for coffee or vegging out in front of the
TV you have time. Do something - anything. It all
helps. Better yet - take a class with the kids.
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4. Look your best.
Get a great haircut. Wear the best
clothes you can afford. When we look good we feel
good and we smile more.
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5. Smile.
You’ll automatically feel
better. Even better - laugh.
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6. Count your blessings.
Your mother was right, count
your blessings. Make a gratitude list. We all have
a multitude of things to be grateful for. Post your
list and add to it. Have the kids make one too.
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7. Ask for help.
We don’t have to do it all
alone. Ask family, friends, co-workers, and
organizations for help. From babysitting to yard
cleanup to a ride to the store. People love to be
needed. (Just don’t use them)
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8. Help others.
Nothing feels as good as
service. Get the kids involved. Help clean up the
beach or mow the elderly neighbor’s lawn. Helping
each other makes all our lives easier.
| You may have noticed that all of
these tips have the added benefit that they
make you feel good and better about yourself
This is a good thing to teach your
children too. And teaching your children to
help others will have benefits for you too
,hopefully a long way down the road,
because this means that when you need help
they will be prepared and used to giving
it!
~ Site Editor |
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9. Connect to your spirituality.
Whatever that is for you. Nature, music,
church, gardening. Do something at least once a
week that makes you feel whole.
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- 10. Lower your expectations.
Yes - LOWER your expectations. Of yourself
and of your kids. You’re not supermom and they aren’t
superkids. Cut all of you some slack.
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About The Author
Jean Johnson, one time
single working mom, is now a full-time
coach and writer specializing in women’s
issues, especially those involving
transitions, spirituality and finding your
purpose, passion and pizzazz in life. Jean
can be reached at
jeanjohnson@cuttothechasecoaching.com, or
check out her website at
www.cuttothechasecoaching.com.
jeanjohnson2@cuttothechasecoaching.com
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So, keep in mind what is really important to
you, and don't sweat the small stuff. Reduce that stress! Try,
just for today, not to worry. You can do it - remember, your
family depends on you.
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